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saturday, was hal’s 33rd birthday. i was a naughty wife, and not in a good way, in that i did not get him a present.  however, the day did not go by without many gifts given.  a week prior, i asked my MIL if she would watch our children saturday night.  somehow, what was originally [...]

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a brief explanation of the quote:
If divorce has increased by one thousand percent, don’t blame the women’s movement. Blame the obsolete sex roles on which our marriages were based. – Betty Friedan
i love this quote and believe it to be true, though if i were to have been the one to write it into a [...]

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we are on day seven of hal’s twelve day work stretch.  and oh my, i am beginning to feel it.  i think the thick of it will hit us on monday when we realize we still have FOUR MORE DAYS to go.  hal picked up a one day a week part-time librarian position for a [...]

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First conversation when I [just barely] opened my eyes this morning:
Max {hovering over me with a sense of urgency in his voice, whispering loudly}: Mom… MOM!
Me {groggy}: Whah?
Max {still, in a strong whisper}: YOUR bathroom is DISGUSTING!
Me {as if it were my dad telling me}: Oh, I know. I guess I [...]

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Sorry for the dramatic I’M TAKING A BREAK post.  I think I just need to post less often ‘cuz I was getting too up in my head with all the writing I was doing.

I like to touch rainbows.
-Max

Hal and I have become quite seasoned when it comes to talking about things that once caused great [...]

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The other night when Hal came home from work, he did an extra-special groping in honor of his attraction to me because I wear sweat pants and T-shirts.  Apparently, business casual just doesn’t do it for my husband.  He likes a women dressed in materials that grip her body in the most gawd-awful ways.  The [...]

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Saturday night I went out with friends to an art gallery then hung out at a local café.  The art gallery threw me off, at first, causing me to feel like a fish out of water.  Seeing people put together so nicely, having conversations with other adults that didn’t center around motherhood and holding little [...]

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I sent a letter to one of my friends this morning and feel I need to record those sentiments here:
Just wanted to throw something out your way… I know we all have different time tables for when we are up for more challenges than just surviving with a newborn and toddler. It took me [...]

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